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Diarize

her or me, is what I'd say to him, at least to get a reaction, or date others, yup, welcome to the world of grown womanhood

Felicio

I don't know why, but I have noticed that more men than women have trouble putting themselves in someone else's shoes. Like guys are more likely to need it flat out spelled out to them why their girlfriend might be annoyed that the guy stayed late at work without calling, one of those things that should be a minor "Gosh, I totally screwed up, sorry" turns into a big fight because he doesn't get why she'd be annoyed that she was worried about him for no reason.

Pocono

2 is sexy, tight little body

Duedate

It sounds to me like you two have a genuinely great connection. The distance and the depression are two big blocks in your way, but having suffered from very bad depression myself and having come out of it, the best two things you can for him are 1. Don't pressure and 2. Be a good listener; be a good friend to him. (Please don't infer that I'm saying you're not a good listener, one of the main symptoms in depression is that people don't feel fully listened to).

Oldtown

Me too (y)

Manifesto

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Maryl

If you're going to talk to him ... well ... I guess the best thing would be to be calm & self-possessed. Hard I know. But really Laurynn, you know you're not irrational or hysterical. And you're not asking him to come over and explain himself. So if he feels compelled, well, fine. But that doesn't mean you have to be easily placated or swayed. So I guess I'd say, if he must come in, invite him in for A (that's one) cup of coffee. Tell him you're making it an early night, so you can really only chat for a little while. Listen to what he has to say -- and say as little as you can in return. If he's spouting crap, trying to convince you that you're nuts to be upset, don't respond in kind. Just smile and nod a bit, let him go on. When his hour is up, thank him for coming over, show him to the door and tell him you'll think about what he has said. Make no promises.

Adelaida

I have a close friend who is like this with her relationships. She has borderline personality disorder and is very unstable with them. Extremely hot and cold. I love her, but I see the pattern in their responses to her over time. She has driven them crazy and many say she is extremely vindictive and emasculating. It does not get better. I would walk away before you become miserable, like many of my friend's exes claimed.